love problems haha

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  1. zRoCkIsAdDiCtInG

    zRoCkIsAdDiCtInG HWF Guitar Freak

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    k heres the situation :confused:

    two girls really like me :eek:

    and the problem is that I like them a hell lot too :x:

    and no, threesomes are not an option... :(

    help? :eek:hah:
     
  2. ninja fetus

    ninja fetus I'm a thugged out gangsta

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    which one do you have more in common with, who's friends/parents you like more. Also, stay away from the 'easy' ones. Just a warning >_>
     
  3. Nic

    Nic Sleepy Head

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    Dammit thats a hard one, ask me computer related, much easier! Go with the one wuth the better sense of humour!
     
  4. Anti-Trend

    Anti-Trend Nonconformist Geek

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    Why do you feel you need to be in a 'relationship' with one of them?
     
  5. Fred

    Fred Moderator

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    In one sense, I'm with NF.... on the other hand... If you can't decide between either of them, then you probably shouldn't go for one or the other - or you should wait longer. If you are into dating for the 'long haul' then you definetly shouldn't go into a relationship with the chances of immediate regrets about "what if i went with the other woman" Hope that makes sense. Best of luck! ;)
     
  6. ThePenguinCometh

    ThePenguinCometh There is no escape

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    Here's an idea for you: it's easier to get forgiveness than permission.

    Which one of the two is more forgiving? Good, go with the other one. If it doesn't work out you can always go back to the forgiving one, grovel to her and beg for her forgiveness, easy. :good:
     
  7. Exfoliate

    Exfoliate Geek Trainee

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    I'd personally say wait for awhile and see which one you seem to be getting more attached too, if you're lucky one of them will make the decision for you and ask you out but that doesn't happen much I'll admit. How long have you liked each other? Also concider the future, are they in your grade? That sort of thing, good luck.
     
  8. harrack52

    harrack52 Supreme Geek

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    I'd say if you can't decide, it probably means you don't really like them that much. In other words, maybe your attraction is purely sexual.

    So you have two choices:
    1. Stay alone
    2. Go out with one of them only to leave her or be left later.
     
  9. Big B

    Big B HWF Godfather

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    It's okay to have female friends and never go past that level. I'm 24 and only now have a gf. Before, I was intrested in the ladies, but not on anything really past their looks. Be nice to both of them and be yourself.
     
  10. WWR

    WWR Ultra Geek

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    B pretty much sumed up what I was thinking, seriously though if you can't decide between two girls then neither of them are meant for you.

    IMO, threesomes are wrong.
     
  11. zRoCkIsAdDiCtInG

    zRoCkIsAdDiCtInG HWF Guitar Freak

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    nah they're both really funny, and no they're not like sluts, they're smart, im not sexually attracted though they are good looking, and their personalities are amazing, the problem is both of them are trying to get closer to me too, and i don't want to see a catfight. one is my grade, one is a year younger

    damn it
     
  12. matttibb

    matttibb Geek Trainee

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    If you're young it's not going to be anything really serious so just have fun and do whatever because it won't affect your life in the long-term. That's what I live by :D

    (sorry if that's made anyone think I'm a twat, lol)
     
  13. ninja fetus

    ninja fetus I'm a thugged out gangsta

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    I can see where matttib's coming from, just get what you need from 'em and split, though I don't think he's interested in doin' stuff like that with them.
     
  14. Exfoliate

    Exfoliate Geek Trainee

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    Well if she's in your grade you must see her more often right? I realize you don't want to abandon your other friend obviously but if you don't have many classes with her and you don't see her as much it becomes a little easier to try for the other I suppose. But I'm not in your shoes so I'd give it time dude.
     
  15. WWR

    WWR Ultra Geek

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    Try and find which one you like more, because if you continue trying to like them easily they'll BOTH leave you.

    Example:

    Girl A - "Hey I heard you've got feelings for Girl B."
    You - "But..."
    Girl A - "Save it, goodbye."
    You - "Damn... but now the way is clear for Girl B."
    Girl B - "Oh no, I heard you have feelings for Girl A, I'm going nowhere near you."
    You = teh alone.
     
  16. zRoCkIsAdDiCtInG

    zRoCkIsAdDiCtInG HWF Guitar Freak

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    haha yea, i kno wwr, no mattib dun worry ur not a twat, i live like that too (unless im a twat haha) yea jus havin fun is cool, its obvious that we won't get like into it SO much, just havin fun is the idea, but u kno women (sigh) lol
     

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