I rediscovered the Why Geeks and Nerds Are Worth It bit I'd run across years ago. Why we are a fine piece of man:
Every word of the above post is true. Plus, we save you money, if there's a technical problem you never need to call tech support or an engineer, you've got one for free!
Actually, the last one I posted did come up with the current g/f. One of her friends tried to hook her up with some wanna-be gangsta, and him butchering the English language was a major turnoff.
I'm not single, but this is still fairly on-topic. I was just thinking about something earlier... When I was a younger man, I wasn't very assertive, nor confident. There were girls at the time that liked me, thought I was attractive/fun/funny/whatever, but most of these still didn't want to date me or commit to anything. As I got a bit older, I grew frustrated at the general cruelness of many of my peers (plus the normal teenage angst) and became much more assertive. In short, I didn't take any shit from anyone; male, female, whatever. At that point, things changed. I was 1000% more successful with girls, though my appearance and other major traits had changed little if at all. The catalyst? Confidence. Once I had stopped really caring what others thought, ironically they thought more highly of me. I think girls seek guys that are capable of making them feel secure, and they don't feel that insecure guys can provide this. I hope this helps one of my peers out there in internetland; I wish somebody would have told me that when I was younger.
Damn it megamaced! I was saving that secret for a special occasion. Actually I was going to sell it next time I was short on cash!
HAHAHA, lol, that gave me a good laugh, and yeah, confidence has a whole lot to do with getting and keeping a relationship.