Well it's not really a problem, as there is nothing actually wrong, however on the subject of a router, yes a router could be used although it is not necersary, i also use NTL as my broadband provider, 750 Speed, The internet is controlled ie plugged into my main machine, however all 6 other computers i have around the house are all connected and use my NTL connection as they are all on the same network. A router is definately not needed, and far from what is required :)
I Use a simple router, i also have 1 laptop that is connected wireless to my network via wireless hub.
I have my main machine that controls the internet (the computer that has the external USB / Ethernet modem connected) to also control the USB Wireless network hub (ie the computer that has the wireless hub plugged in).
All you need to do is to get a Wireless Network Hub or some form, set it up on the machine that connects directly to the internet, set your Wireless network hub to share your assign its IP automatically via your main computer, setup wireless encryption (if you want - although it is recommended) then setup your wireless laptop so it is on the same workgroup as your main computer is set to, and setup the wireless laptop to detect the wireless hub (which it can easily do via scanning) then set the laptop to use the same password for the wireless network as you set the wireless hub to require.
Hope this helps, would lay it out easier but i am in a rush + if you get a wireless router, you will have to setup gateways, which is unnecersary.
BigB is right about the router, however remember he is going to be using the router in an internal network, ie the router will not have direct access to the internet, therefore having the requirements of a hardware firewall that a router provides is not really required..
However.. a router would be good IF you are going to replace your NTL external modem, for a wireless router with ethernet support, ie: you can connect your main PC to it via network cable, and connect your wireless laptop to it via wireless.
But remember that NTL will not support you if you remove / replace your modem for one that they do not support..
+ by the sounds of things i think setting up a successful, secure, working router and reconfiguring it for internet use, + setting up wireless gateways would most likely be to much hassle for what he is going to be using.. and cost wise.
However thats my opinion, none the less you have 2 ideas of what you can do :) Also remember that you should try and secure XP as much as possible as its very insecure, i suggest disabling file and print sharing if you are not going to be doing that type of thing with your laptop.. or removing Netbieu (spelt wrongly)
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