Yes, This is the end that attaches to the monitor end, And thankfully my Dad was a television engineer for a large part of his life, and is now in another electronic career. So we are safe :D
Did you have any joy with the monitor cable? I have a similar problem now. Had the system un-assembled, the monitor was on the floor and the pup chewed the cable. It is a good HP LCD monitor and the VGA cable is hardwired. It would be a shame to loose the monitor just because of the cable.
Sorry, I had no luck finding one. I purchased a new monitor from ebay, only £5 so it wasn't to bad. If you do happen to come accross someone who stocks them, do tell =]